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Thursday, April 27, 2017

Lots getting done!

the first layer of cement on the floors ~

Between yesterday and today 4 trucks delivered cement to complete the job.

end of day 2

my two partners for work today

Oksana working hard in the garden

preparing the flower bed for morning glories

Sashinka, my assistant, who loves to garden did a lot of clearing today.

I love the fields of green around Darivka!

Tolic, our metal works artist, began putting up the grapevine arbor today.

All of the columns with the grapes in the center of them, were placed today.

Monday the arbor will go on top.

Oksana's work complete, and a great job she did, cleaning and preparing the flowerbed.

A new perspective! One to enjoy!

Sashinka helped get this area cleared

& these blackcurrant bushes transplanted.

flowers on a blackcurrant bush

the transplanted dark purple lilac shoot

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PhyllisApril 29, 2017 at 6:08 AM
Now I see what Oksana was telling me about. :-)
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Loving on disable children in a small town, state run orphanage.

THEIR FUTURE

Most kids in Ukraine have to leave the orphanage at 18 years of age. A normal, healthy orphan has a rather bleak future if they don't have the encouragement of others. Most have few life skills and a poor education, and they are left to fend for themselves.

But for handicapped orphans, those labeled mentally disabled, their future is miserable. At 18 they are uprooted from the only home they have ever known, the orphanage, and sent to live in a psychological "internat" (government run institute) or an old-age home for the rest of their lives. They have no rights… no formal education and no understanding of life outside the orphanage. Desperate for freedom and longing to be loved, they are isolated from society.

Throughout their life in Ukraine, nothing for these disabled children comes easily. The world here is not handicap accessible. The stigma and cultural perspective remains in many people’s minds that these kids are not kids and need to be shut away. That is what has been done, having been placed in institutes they are not allowed to leave. The mentality of some who work in the homes is that the children don’t have feelings because they cannot respond or interact as a typical child. The children are not expected to live. That changes the whole outlook on care, feeding, nurturing, health, and every aspect of life.

But what about their hearts?

Necessities are covered by a small stipend from the local government for families who keep their disabled children in their homes. Many homes are single moms, and if she is at home with her disabled child, she cannot work to put food on the table or provide a roof over her family’s head. The government’s stipend does not begin to cover these needs. In many ways, out of a pure lack of resources, it is easier for the family to allow the government to provide, which means giving up their parental rights and letting someone else take care of their children.

The government will step in and remove a disabled child from the home if there is alcohol abuse, drug, and/or physical abuse. These addictions often result in the child having epilepsy. This is one of the biggest problems in the orphanage.

For all the children, no matter if their disability is physical, mental, or both, between 18 and 19 years of age, they will be moved to an asylum referred to as a psycho-neurological “internat” for adults or to a facility comparable in nature to an old folk’s homes.

This is the future for these young adults.

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